To get in to a discussion about being a poser, one must also talk about grace. Let me illustrate that with this quote -
"Instead of being stunned by the extravagance of God's love, many days I just expect it. In place of heartfelt gratitude for the sheer, unearned abundance of God's gifts, I'm often gripped by an arrogant satisfaction in my accomplishments and the false security of spiritual superiority." Brennan Manning

Nothing matters, but God. Without Him, there is no love, and there is no us, because nothing matters if there is no God. So if you are convinced, that He is real, then you must also be convinced that your life is not your own. We are posers, because we think we deserve God and all His goodness, and we move on trying to look good at being the 'blessed'. Posers are the one's God despises, because we try to look like the very thing God created us not to be, unhumble nonservants.

Revelation 3:16 But since you are lukewarm and neither cold nor hot, I will spit you out of my mouth.

be Rare

Andy